What Does “School Ready” Really Mean?

Starting school is an exciting milestone, but it can also bring a mix of questions and uncertainty. As parents and educators, you might find yourself wondering: “Are they ready?” or “What should they be able to do before their first day?”

Starting school is an exciting milestone. For many families, it’s a time filled with anticipation, school uniforms, lunchbox prep, and a million questions, one of the biggest being: “Is my child ready?”

From a paediatric occupational therapist’s perspective, school readiness is not about whether a child knows the alphabet or count to twenty. Those things come in time. What really matters is whether a child has the foundational skills they’ll need to feel confident and capable in the classroom.

It’s the everyday stuff that matters most

When we talk about school readiness, we’re looking at how a child manages the demands of the school day, not just the academic ones, but the social, physical and emotional demands too.

Take motor skills, for example. A child doesn’t just need to be able to hold a pencil, they need the hand strength, finger coordination, and postural control that allows them to draw, write, and sit upright for a whole group lesson. Without these foundations, writing can become tiring or frustrating, often leading to lack of confidence and avoidance of writing tasks.

There’s also the big transition from the physical freedom of play based settings to the structure of a classroom. Children are expected to manage their belongings, sit still, follow instructions, and move from one task to the next. These are huge changes, and they rely on a mix of developing skills, such as fine motor control, attention, organisation, and emotional regulation.

Emotional and social readiness: The quiet game changers

We often focus on practical skills like drawing or using scissors, but emotional readiness is just as important, if not more. Can the child cope with separating from a parent? Are they learning to recover from small upsets without melting down? Are they comfortable in a group? These skills take time to build and can vary widely from child to child. But they’re essential to helping children feel safe and settled, which is the foundation for learning.

Social confidence matters too. Children who can take turns, ask for help, and play alongside others are more likely to feel connected and included; two things that make a big difference to how they show up at school each day.

Independence builds confidence

Starting school also comes with new responsibilities, things like packing your own bag, unpacking lunch, remembering your hat, and managing your own belongings. For some kids, they enjoy the increased responsibility. For others, they can feel overwhelming.

That’s why we look at early signs of independence: Can a child follow a two step instruction? Do they have a sense of what belongs to them? Are they learning how to manage transitions and routines with a bit of adult support? These might seem like small wins, but they help children feel capable, in control, and ready to take on their day.

A child doesn’t have to be ‘perfect’ to be ready

There’s no universal checklist a child must tick before starting school. All children develop at their own pace. Some will leap into the classroom with confidence. Others may take a little longer to settle. Both of which are okay.

What matters most is that we look at the whole child, not just their letters and numbers, but how they manage their body, emotions, relationships, and responsibilities. These are the true building blocks of school success. As occupational therapists, we’re here to support that journey, whether it’s helping a child strengthen their pencil grip, manage transitions, or build confidence in group play.

We’ve put together a simple checklist to help families and educators to reflect on the everyday skills that support a confident school start.

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And if you're feeling unsure or have questions about your child’s development, you’re not alone. We’re here to help. Get in touch with us at hello@movingmountainsvillage.com.au or visit

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By   Marie Criticos (OT)

School Readiness Series: 5 Motor Skills You Need to Target

Starting school is a big step, and it’s about more than recognising letters and numbers. At Moving Mountains Village, we know that strong motor skills help children feel confident and capable in the classroom, in the playground and at their desk.

When children haven’t yet developed foundation motor skills for kindy, they may struggle to keep up with classroom routines, tire quickly during writing tasks, or feel frustrated by activities their peers find easy. This can impact not only their academic progress, but also their confidence and willingness to participate.

Here are five essential motor skills we recommend building before your child starts school:

1. Core Strength and Postural Control

Sitting still on the floor or at a desk takes more effort than we realise. Core muscles help children sit upright without tiring, which supports attention, coordination and handwriting. A strong core makes it easier for children to use their arms and hands with control while writing. If postural strength is lacking, children may slouch, lean on their arms, or shift their position. Try activities like animal walks, crawling through tunnels, climbing at the park or wheelbarrow walks to build strength in a fun and playful way.

2. Hand and Finger Strength

Strong hands and fingers are key for writing, cutting, opening lunch boxes and using zippers. When children lack strength in these small muscles, they may grip their pencil too tightly, fatigue quickly or avoid drawing and writing altogether. Encourage activities that build these muscles, such as playdough, tweezers, tongs, squeezing spray bottles, scrunching paper or tearing and cutting craft materials.

3. Bilateral Coordination

Bilateral coordination means using both sides of the body together in a smooth and organised way. This is essential for tasks like cutting with scissors (one hand cuts while the other holds) or holding a page still while writing. Children with poor bilateral coordination may struggle to keep their work steady, resulting in messy writing and reduced independence. Try threading, rolling and cutting with playdough, playing catch or popping bubbles with two hands.

4. Hand-Eye Coordination

From catching a ball to placing puzzle pieces, hand-eye coordination helps children navigate both learning and play. In the classroom, this skill is used when copying from the board, organising letters on a page or placing objects with precision. Practice with balloon volleyball, bean bag toss, block building or lacing cards helps develop this skill in a fun and engaging way.

5. Fine Motor Control and Pencil Grasp

Before writing, children need to develop control in their fingers and hands for drawing, colouring and eventually writing letters. Without well developed fine motor control, children may struggle to form letters, keep them within the lines or write at a pace that matches classroom demands. Practise using different drawing tools such as different shaped crayons, and pencils and textas of varying thickness to help support pencil grasp development. Encourage activities like dot-to-dots, mazes and name tracing to support pencil control and precision.

Why Motor Skills Matter
Motor skills do more than support handwriting. They help children participate in daily routines, build independence and feel confident in their abilities. Without foundational motor skills, writing can become tiring and frustrating, affecting academic progress and classroom engagement.

At Moving Mountains Village, our occupational therapists support families with school readiness by helping build these essential skills through playful, developmentally appropriate therapy.

If you would like to learn more about how we can support your child’s transition to school, reach out to our team at hello@movingmountainsvillage.com.au